Heiros Gamos

What happened to the divine feminine?

Most of us don’t know softness. We know how to project, blame, dismantle, avoid, fear, run, shutdown.

We forgot, the corporate and the capitalist and the globalists and the agenda on top of agenda –

suck the life from the feminine.

You’ll hear her moaning about her partner, kids, family; the very life she creates. Oblivious to the power of her words, her story, her spelling over others.

You’ll hear her celebrate her job, her raise, her wine, her vacation, her labels, her vanilla-expensive new home. You’ll hear her champion her achievements; and then you’ll console her with wine or therapist recommendations as she wonders why she feels so alone and discontent.

You won’t hear her marvel at a sunset, or the bread. You won’t hear her uphold her man for his devotion, his patience, his romance. You won’t hear her bible devotion, or see her candle lit save for holidays.

She forgot – pleasure is found in her deep sensuality, in her sacredness, in her ability to breathe life and joy through her touch, her words of affirmation, her connection to source.

She forgot her power to create and uphold. She forgot her visionary dreams for her life, her family – only existing for the dustlands of another title, another accolade, entertaining the fantasy perhaps of affairs, or another title.

Underneath the pretty presentation and the career, the well runs dry. The radiance and joy seem hollow.

We lost her.

What happened to the divine masculine?

We forgot, how they suck the life from the masculine.

Praised for his ego and toughness, he lost the gentle, considered leadership of his home.

He forgot that the warmth of his woman brings deep joy a salary cannot touch. He forgot the power of his slowness, his considered movements with her, – turned on instead for the speed, push, the battle, the fight that never came –

except for the client, the contract, the offer.

He forgot the power of his goodness = his godness. He forgot his value isn’t outside of him- we taught him to go eternally seeking a way to feel enough.

He forgot his strength is in his word, his tenderness, his heart, his actions, his presence – his godly gifts of provision. He lost, the reason why he ‘works’ to begin with. He lost his virility with the gaze of distractedness, they made him see only toys, playthings, achievements, the new the next the novel the fantasy.

They tuned him out of his ultimate power; to provide and protect her, above all others;

and he forgot his true power found in the support, devotion, and radiance of a content, prayerful wife.

He forgot to lead her to God, because our divine masculine lost sight of God himself. He lost his divine connection. He lost her.

We lost him.

But some of us are returning.

Back to softness, back to our divine nature, back to our intuition, back to togetherness, the holy unit,

Back to the hieros gamos.

Heiros Gamos – the sacred union, of self and to another.

The return of the divine masculine, the divine feminine.

Together – holy, divine, union.

• The energy between you isn’t forced; it’s magnetic but also calm. Attraction is energetic, uplifting, comforting; as much as physical.

• You feel energized together and centered at the same time.

Mutual Activation of Potential

• Together, you unlock qualities and abilities you didn’t fully access alone—creativity, courage, emotional intelligence, or intuition.

• Life feels more expansive; your goals, visions, or spiritual purpose get amplified.

Unconditional Acceptance

• Even with challenges or differences, there’s a sense of being fully seen and accepted.

• Ego competition fades; what matters is synergy, not control or dominance.

Feeling of Timelessness

• Moments together feel eternal or outside linear time. There’s a deep “presence” in the connection.

• Spiritual practices like meditation, breathwork, prayer, or even simple shared rituals like housework, chores or feel naturally intensified yet calming.

Like you are always held. Like you have space to grow, and fall, and yet you are held regardless.

Some of us are returning to an ancient, Godly, timeless and strong way of being.

Some of us are creating soft, permanent, new ways of being in partnership. Creating new imprints for future generations. New patternings.

Some of us are reviving our divine feminine and masculine essence.

Some of us are remembering the dissatisfaction was never ours to carry, and that only Hieros Gamos enables us to meet God, in the face, hands, spirit and heart of another.

Some of us are remembering softness, deep trust, acceptance, other-worldly connection, grace and God.

To your divine love xo