This Word Is Your Wand
If I had one thing I could tell people that want to transform their relationship and I wasn’t allowed to use ‘manifestation’ or ‘persist’, it would be this one word.
This word
-overcomes ego on both sides
-defeats fear (of which is the root of ego)
-breaks old habits
-transforms thought patterns
-dismantles trauma imprinting
-brings us back into alignment with our true self, source, GOD
-reconnects us
-initiates forgiveness
-moves us forward and out of the past or current circumstances
-helps us to feel good
-is always rewarded
-restores us to our divine feminine / masculine they tried to remove, with their clocking in, suits, and systems;
-slices through the defenses (to de-fence) of another
and yet is the hardest thing to do, on a consistent, present basis.
What does it look like?
It looks like, (read on for the actual word)
*accountability, when your ego wants to deflect, defend, project
*gentle words, in a world that trains you for the hostility of independent ‘self-protection’
*staying curious ‘how do you feel about this? how does this land for you? how can we work on this together?‘ when you’re scared of the answer
*presence, when you desire to hide or shutdown
*strong, physical hugs, when your nervous system is screaming
*willingness
*changing your thoughts about them, about your relationship, to see only the best and the good and like they are a gift from God regardless of what ‘the scales in your eyes’ show you, or your non-discerning ears hear (you choose God regardless)
*persistence, even when you want to quit
*sensuality, for your soul and skin and for the food of your mind. Nature immersion. Ocean swims. Stormy walks. Seeking the sunrise and hugging trees and making daisy chains and marveling at all of the things and the small things because, nature will remind you of how to drop into your body, tells you that are always calm and safe and held, to breathe in deeply, for gratitude and perspective.
*practice
*and staying. When staying can be the hardest thing for the mind, ego and body stuck in trauma loops of relationship imprinting from parents, friends, media and *Insert Other Brainwash Device Here* when the mind idealises the next fantasy, the relationship that SEEMS easier – it looks like staying.
This Word Changes Your Relationship
The word, runs threads through all these ways of being, these ways of loving.
The word is what the hardness of the city and the lure of the ‘grass is greener’ fantasy wanted you to forget. Isn’t the new job, the flame you always had a mild crush on returning through ‘such strange coincidences!’ the new salary, the shiny new car, the swipe, the bonus, always the allure of the new and the next and the high and the fantasy… don’t they all whisper…
wouldn’t this make your life easier, better somehow? caught in the lie and the fantasy, the whispers of the opposite of God –
In a world that wants you hard, and discombobulated;
lured away from that which keeps you grounded, and whole, present, grateful, and finding ‘heaven on earth’.
choosing
SOFTNESS
feels hard.
And that’s why SOFTNESS
Is the only way
And the only way we come back to Love.
PS my other words would be ‘conscious awareness’ ‘God’ ‘loyalty’ ‘trust’ 🙂
